As a TED-style speaking expert, I’m often asked about talk humor.

I always turn to Gene Wilder.

Willy Wonka knew something about humor and captivating an audience. He once observed:

That said, I’m not a fan of heavy-handed, scripted humor in a talk. Performing stand-up comedy is a heavy lift. (Google “Jerry Seinfeld” and “practice” to learn more.)

And yet, "too serious" can often mean too mind-numbing.

That’s why a recent engagement with a CEO's commencement speech included only a handful of polite, scripted — but rigorously tested — chuckles.

And yet, here’s the secret, we paired those pre-determined jokes with what I call the “humor buffet.”

You see, reading the response of your audience is an important skill. And pairing that ability with (seemingly) off-the-cuff humor is a practiced art.

If they’re laughing, it is great to have the option of keeping the fun going — or not.

Instead of stepping to stage inflexibly scripted, consider creating a selection of “humor dishes,” just in case there's an appetite. You can then read your audience and sprinkle additional chuckles around your tried-and-true quips.

As TEDster Sir Ken Robinson shared in conversation about the design of his breakaway talk:

“It’s important to have rapport with the room. It’s like jazz, I think, or improv... I have some notes in my pocket with just some bullet points, and it’s like a set list is how I think of it, because every audience is different and every occasion is different.”

Consider Sir Ken’s talk about schools and creativity. About 45 seconds in, he asks the audience a question and then cracks a joke about his chosen field:

(Laughter)

(Laughter)

(Laughter)

(Laughter)

Sir Ken popped off one joke and quickly returned to the buffet three times before returning to the topic at hand!

Yet don’t ask the audience to gorge on comedy. Only offer more IF you find the audience is responding. Laughing. Wanting more. (Hopefully they will be.)

Otherwise, leave that array of comedy dishes untouched. Don't be a not-so-funny, wannabe comedian.

You can return to the buffet another time if the audience is still hungry.

After all... “A little nonsense, now and then, is relished.”

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DEVIN D. MARKS is known as The TED Talk Whisperer. His firm, CONNECT to COMPEL, has served 100s of TED, TEDx, and TED-Style speakers. The result: 100s of millions of views. His team helps leaders, just like you, catalyze ideas.

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